Dear family and friends,
Tom and I are eight months into the process of
adopting from China. It's quite a long process
right now, so we'll probably be waiting several
more months (7-10) before we are welcoming our new
daughter into our home. She will be young, probably
between 12 - 24 months old when we get her and her
name will be Adelie Mei Wartman. While we are
waiting for her arrival, we are working on a project
that we welcome your help with. We are creating
something called a "100 Good Wishes Quilt."
To welcome and celebrate a new life, there is a
tradition in the northern part of China to make a Bai
Jia Bei, or "100 Good Wishes Quilt." It is a custom to
invite family and friends to contribute a square patch
of cloth. The patches are sewn together into a quilt
that contains the luck, energy, and good wishes from all
the families and friends who contributed a piece of
fabric. The quilt is then passed down from generation to
generation.
If you would like to contribute to this project, we
would love it! Here is what we would like you to
do:
1. Choose ANY 100% cotton fabric that you like. It
can be from clothing or from a fabric store. It can be a
design and color that you like. It could be a bit
of fabric that you've used to create something else
wonderful for your family.
2. Cut one 8X8 square from the fabric. Also, cut
a scrap piece of that same fabric that you can
attach to your wish card.
3. Include your "good wish note" and
attach the scrap piece of fabric. Be as creative as you
would like. It can be as simple as on a piece of paper,
or you can make it like a scrap book card. We will place
all your wishes in a scrapbook.
Ideas for selecting fabric squares:
*Select a fabric that is meaningful to you, maybe
that has been a part of the family in some way. (Tom
says "no old diapers, please") :-)
*100% cotton fabric is best, as it washes and wears
well.
*If there are several members in your family, please
feel free to send more than 1 set of fabric. It would be
so special to include good wishes from all members of
your family!! In China, these quilts were originally
made from garments of family and friends, which would
surround the child with luck/good wishes.
Ideas for good wishes note:
Well... what would you wish for a child to have in
her life? Some ideas that come to mind are good health,
perseverance, compassion, and sense of humor. Keep
in mind that she will read your note numerous times
during her life.
I plan to create this quilt by
hand and hope to get started this month, so if you have
a chance to send a square soon, that would be great, as
I'd love to get planning the design. You're welcome to
pass this email along to other family members I might
not have had on this list. Thanks for taking a few
minutes from your busy schedules to help us create this
very special keepsake. This is something that she will
cherish for the rest of her life.
Thanks!!
Love,
Nancy Ann & Tom and Georgia, Calvin, Martin and Camille